The Problem with Red Flags is that I'm Attracted to Them
I've been trying to figure out what I wanted my next blog post to be about. It took a while for a thought to pop in my head that inspired me enough to write this post. I won't lie, I've still been battling different thoughts and emotions a little bit here and there. Let's call it residual feelings. In some of the thoughts I've had, I've also been working on digging deeper into the meanings behind the thoughts. Then that led to some more analyzation of what happened and where there might have been issues that were overlooked. It finally occurred to me that there were, in fact, red flags in my last relationship that I never picked up on. I swore up and down for months that there was nothing I could point to - no red flags - that would help explain why it didn't work. But I was wrong, I just didn't know what I should have been paying attention to. So, let's talk about it. This year has left me heartbroken. I truly didn't think I'd be here. I ha